What a fascinating origin story of the Yorùbá word “Ìyàwó,” meaning “wife.”
The tale revolves around Princess Wúràọlá of Iwó town, who was known for her beauty and unruly behavior. Many strong and good-looking men, including Sàngó and Ògún, attempted to marry her but were driven away by her insults and curses.
Enter Ọ̀rúnmìlà, a patient and tolerant man who consulted Olódùmarè (the supreme being) through Ifá before meeting Wúràọlá. Despite facing similar treatment from the princess, Ọ̀rúnmìlà persevered, showcasing his kindness and good manners.
The king, impressed by Ọ̀rúnmìlà’s character, gave his daughter’s hand in marriage to him. As it turned out, Wúràọlá’s behavior was a test to find a suitable husband.
When Ọ̀rúnmìlà returned to his town with Wúràọlá, he referred to her as “Ìyà tí mo jẹ ní Iwó” (my sufferings in Iwó town). Over time, this phrase evolved into “Ìyà-Iwó” and eventually “Ìyàwó,” the modern Yorùbá term for “wife.”
This story not only provides insight into the etymology of “Ìyàwó” but also offers a humorous and relatable account of the challenges men may face in their relationships.
